We are Kirk and Mandy (and Kenna) from Colorado. Thank you for taking the time to look at our profile and learn a a little more about us. We have been married since September of 2013. After many years of trying to start a family we were lead to the path of adoption, and in 2018 we welcomed our daughter Kenna into our family. Through the miracle of adoption, we were blessed beyond measure. Kenna's first mom gave us the most selfless gift when she gave us the gift of parenthood.
While we aren't perfect, what we can promise is that if you choose us to parent your child they will always have our unconditinal love and support. They will be guided without judgement through lifes ups and downs, and we will cherish every moment that we are gifted with them.
We hope that by looking at our profile you can get to know us a little better. Please know that we have a great amount of admiration for you and the journey you are embarking on. We know that we can't understand what you are feeling, but we do offer our sincere support and prayers.
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.